One of the things that gets to me is when people express their ideas in a critical rather than helpful manner.
If something isn’t the way it can be then our approach should always be encouragement, creativity or jumping in with sleeves rolled up and a willingness to help.
Somehow the human race has a screw loose though… we often express our ideas in every way possible except the constructive ones.
I’ve got a few close friends and some staff members at church who are of a rare kind. They build up and help as a matter of habit… these are the friends I aim to keep!!